Posts by Anony Mous

  • Lace83
    27

    I want a marriage mate that’s a brother

    by Lace83 in
    1. social
    2. relationships

    hi, my name is leacy and i am 41 years old.

    i live in california.

    i attend the rancho santa margarita congregation.

    1. Ugot2bekiddingme1
    2. stan livedeath
    3. joe134cd
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    I actually check a lot of your boxes—except for eye color. Tragic, I know. And then there’s that whole pesky California-to-here distance thing and the fact I haven't had multiple partners in quite some time… polyamory thrives on flexibility though, and you didn't exclude that possibility...

    I'm technically still a JW, so I even check that box, but I've stepped into a world where many ‘no’ turn into ‘why not’ - stepping outside your comfort zone isn’t just freedom, it’s an awakening.

    But hey, why not stick around and dive into the discussions here? The best connections (romantic or otherwise) tend to come from shared stories, I'm sure you have some questions, changes and doubt you want to share and ask about.

    And in the mean time, feel free to ask for some references to places that can give you some relief (and education) for your desires, from what I hear, guidance now says those are no longer prohibited.

  • Truth and Justice
    9

    Any reason for my mother and I not to go back, this is one of them.

    by Truth and Justice in
    1. jw
    2. friends

    hi to all, i have been away from the organization since the 1980's and as it seems, i haven't missed a thing.

    i have seen a deterioration take place that is continually getting more dramatic than i have ever seen.

    the thumbing down or the minimizing of spiritual food is reason enough that people are starving for something good.

    1. MeanMrMustard
    2. Duran
    3. Anony Mous
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    She may be trying to open a door. The Internet has helped many of us to come to a ‘better understanding’. If you are looking to rebuild that relationship, write back to her, not about doctrinal issues but the things she missed, children, progress etc, 45 years is a long time.

  • FreeFallin
    37

    serena williams

    by FreeFallin in
    1. watchtower
    2. scandals

    not really a scandal, but serena williams doing the crip walk on national tv wtf .

    1. Anony Mous
    2. liam
    3. liam
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    Again, renaming a few things because they got in legal trouble doesn’t change the fact, you said it yourself

    many are coming back to be able to talk to family

    And there is the problem. What if you don’t want to be associated with a non-Christian cult? What if you are member of another church? This seems like pure emotional blackmail to boost their numbers.

  • FreeFallin
    37

    serena williams

    by FreeFallin in
    1. watchtower
    2. scandals

    not really a scandal, but serena williams doing the crip walk on national tv wtf .

    1. Anony Mous
    2. liam
    3. liam
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    @liam: What evidence do you have that they truly changed their ways. The disfellowshipping arrangement is still in place, the 2 witness rule is still in place, social control is still a thing. Can you honestly tell the elders that you are posting here on apostate websites and get away with it?

    A few minor adjustments in the style and dress is insufficient, they have always done that, as long as it attracts some followers.

  • FreeFallin
    37

    serena williams

    by FreeFallin in
    1. watchtower
    2. scandals

    not really a scandal, but serena williams doing the crip walk on national tv wtf .

    1. Anony Mous
    2. liam
    3. liam
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    @Liam: Read some of MY recent posts please. Elders and other hardcore JW are TODAY screwing with people's lives.

    I agree many have 'slowed down' since COVID, but COVID is only 4 years ago, not 25-35y as you seem to imply.

    My oldest is 18, my second oldest is 13, the latter is definitely being impacted by strict JW rules and threats of disfellowshipping and fear getting kicked out of the house if they don't toe the line. The older one was taken from me 18 years ago by a cabal of JW elders and family and to date, they don't know we found each other recently - that is what a JW today does to me, I know who knows, most are still an elder today, 15 elders across at least 3 congregations knew, I'm sure there was a detailed record that traveled with me to the next 3 congregations as I was "counseled" when I got to my new congregation about my divorce.

    Various 'pioneer' wives, people that were supposed to be my "family" and raised me, none of them have come forward, some of them died taking the secret to their graves, I was 5 years an active JW ministerial servant on my way to elder AND THEY KEPT IT A SECRET to avoid the 'scandal' because some uber JW's kid or their parents or the elders may have lost some privileges for a few months.

    They didn't tell me when I was a JW, when I left the JW or when I got another child, they know who I am, they have my contact information, legal-technically I am not a disfellowshipped or disassociated JW, so even that is not an excuse.

    A few years ago I posted letters from people that are going through various issues - whether it was ectopic pregnancy or being gay and those were letters to Bethel, read them, that's still how these tribunals are conducted - a 16 or 17yo was asked whose dick did you suck, ectopic pregnancy what does it mean, why didn't you trust in Jehovah and DIE. I was given the same spiel when it came to my 13yo child and blood, I just had a conversation with supposedly very active JW that believe miscarriages are because YOU as a parent did something wrong. Have they changed over the last 10 years, made apologies, set the record straight?

    You have your blinders on, people are still being affected, people are still being sidelined and disfellowshipped and shunned and abused. See the arrests they just made in Pennsylvania, what was it 18 people that are active pedo's.

  • vienne
    3

    "Mailing Tracts" from 1919

    by vienne in
    1. watchtower
    2. beliefs

    for a research project, i need clear scans of all of the 1919 small-sized tracts meant for through the mail witnessing.

    can you help?

    1. dropoffyourkeylee
    2. Anony Mous
    3. vienne
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    You mean these: https://www.ebay.com/itm/116414079420

    Try archive.org, Library of Congress may have them as well, although you may have to physically find them or ask a librarian.

  • raymond frantz
    32

    The King of the North as you Never Heard ity Explained Before

    by raymond frantz in
    1. watchtower
    2. bible

    https://youtu.be/w32nome-k20?si=a8bhxh5tjrkomgzq.

    rather than seeing the king of the north as the final opponent of god’s people, i propose that daniel 11 points to a completely different figure.

    while the watchtower society focuses on the struggle between these two kings, they overlook a third entity mentioned in verse 40, but let’s ready this verse first from the new world translation.

    1. Vidqun
    2. raymond frantz
    3. Jeffro
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    How about this: The King of the North has been Trump, it was Trump this whole time. Think about it: he has been a celebrity rich person with tentacles into the UN through his NY and and worldwide real estate holdings pretty much since the ending of the Cold War. He’s a singular person and not a list of ever changing figure heads like the US Government. He is about to bring about real peace and security and he has supernatural protections from bullets and assassinations.

  • liam
    129

    Just because Jehovah had to prove His Right To Rule? I don't think so!

    by liam in
    1. watchtower
    2. beliefs

    we get old because jehovah had to prove to all the angels that his way of ruling was the best?

    that's the sorriest argument the watchtower has come up with.

    https://www.youtube.com/shorts/11hz_jqjkjo.

    1. Duran
    2. TonusOH
    3. Anony Mous
  • Anony Mous
    Anony Mous

    I think the problem in (many) Christian religions is to attribute omnipotence to God, as if he has the capacity to solve the problem of evil and the second problem is an afterlife that is always good, regardless of your choices.

    The Jewish view and some Christians also believe that evil only exists within us (humans) and it is a choice we make and the stacking of evil things brings about misery for many. And there is only 1 life and you have to live it to the best of your abilities.

    Yes, that places "God" as an omnipotent self-absorbed bully outside of the realm of religion and puts God more as being the collective idea of what we consider to be good, which can only come in hindsight. I like this idea better that God exists in our history, but it evolved from within our societies and worshipping a god is living up to the ideals of that society. Hence why the Bible is really a mis-mash of various Gods with different personalities over the ages.